The problem with lies, even small
and seemingly insignificant lies, is collateral damage. People are hurt in ways
never intended by the person who told the lie. And small lies, when discovered,
require bigger lies to provide cover for the smaller one and so it goes until a
whole edifice is based on the accumulation of lies.
On 4th Oct I wrote in one of my blogs about Somaly Mam – a world famous campaigner against sex slavery and friend
to the rich and famous as a result of her humanitarian work.
TIME magazine regularly carries ads for Somaly
Mam’s Foundation. These are full page ads dominated by a heavily photoshopped
photo of Somaly Mam looking as much like a movie star as possible. Such ads are
not cheap. Would TIME magazine dare publish an investigative piece about Somaly
and her NGO? I doubt it. If TIME did, if an investigative journalist from the
magazine started to ask a few questions s/he would very quickly find out that
Somaly’s announcement that a police raid of her AFESIP centre in Phnom Penh in
2004 resulted in 8 girls being murdered was a lie. Such a whopping lie should,
you would think, destroy Somaly Mam’s credibility entirely or, at the very
least, raise questions about how much of the story she tells about her own life
is true and how much has been made up in order to help her raise money for a
good cause?
The full blog entry can be found here:
http://jamesricketson.blogspot.com.au/2013/10/failure-of-forth-estate-in-cambodia.html
That Somaly Mam has played fast and loose with the truth this past 15 years, has been ‘economical with the truth’, has been common knowledge within the Cambodian NGO community for years. Everyone knew but no-one spoke of it in public. After all, Somaly’s NGO was doing good work rescuing sex slaves, wasn’t she? If she tells a few fibs to raise money does it really matter?
http://jamesricketson.blogspot.com.au/2013/10/failure-of-forth-estate-in-cambodia.html
That Somaly Mam has played fast and loose with the truth this past 15 years, has been ‘economical with the truth’, has been common knowledge within the Cambodian NGO community for years. Everyone knew but no-one spoke of it in public. After all, Somaly’s NGO was doing good work rescuing sex slaves, wasn’t she? If she tells a few fibs to raise money does it really matter?
On 12th Oct. the Cambodia Daily published a story about
Somaly Mam Mam entitled SEX SLAVE STORY REVEALED TO BE FABRICATED – written by
Simon Marks and Phorn Bopha. In reference to Somaly Mam’s documentary, upon
which her rise to international stardom is
based they write:
The documentary opens with the camera focused on
Ms. Ratha, who was then a chubby teenager of about 14-years-old from Takeo
province. Ms. (Somaly) Mam is seated at the young girl’s side as she tells a
dismal tale of sexual slavery in an unnamed brothel somewhere in Phnom Penh.
“My name is Meas Ratha and I am 14 years old. I was
born in the province of Takeo and I have seven brothers and sisters. My family
is very poor. My father has disappeared. One year ago my mother fell seriously
ill. I was completely distraught. I was very young and I didn’t know what to
do,” the young Ms. Ratha says to the camera. She then cries and receives a
comforting squeeze of support from Ms. Mam.
For readers who may have made a financial contribution to the Somaly
Mam Foundation on the basis of what they have read, this article should be
read:
Meas Ratha, aged 14, with Somaly Mam at
her side, continues with her testimony:
“They locked
me up in a room and at that time I knew I had been deceived,” she continues.
The documentary goes on to explain how the young
girl had been promised a job as a waitress in Phnom Penh, but wound up a
captive in a brothel. Later, she is filmed playing musical chairs, skipping
rope, singing alongside other girls being cared for inside the Afesip center
and helping Ms. Mam treat an AIDS patient called Tom Dy.
Sixteen years since the documentary was televised,
Ms. Ratha—now 32 years old and married—said her testimony for the France 2
channel was fabricated and scripted for her by Ms. Mam as a means of drumming
up support for the organization.
Both
Somaly and her Foundation have cruised financially on this documentary ever
since and Somaly now counts as her friends Susan
Sarandon and has been named, in 2009, as
one of Time Magazine’s 100 most influential people. Somaly Mam is a jet-setting
ambassador for her cause. She is also a liar.
Meas Ratha is the collateral damage, living for the
past 16 years with the reputation of having been a prostitute when she was not
– all in support of the lies upon which Somaly Mam’s reputation and capacity to
raise money is based.
Citipointe church does precisely the same in its
presentation of Rosa and Chita as ‘victims of human trafficking’.
On 4th Oct I wrote in my
blog:
Now, if Somaly Mam is essentially a liar whose
lies are an essential part of her money raising modus operandi and if her
Foundation is doing good work with victims of sex slavery, an argument could be
made, I suppose (though I would not do so) that her lies are harmless if they
result in her Foundation being able to help girls what are genuinely in need of
help. But if Somaly can tell whatever story she likes in order to raise money,
why can’t other NGOs do the same? If Somaly can lie about the police raid in
2004, why can’t Citipointe church lie about rescuing ‘victims of human
trafficking’? Why can’t all NGOs tell whatever lie they like in order to keep
the sponsor and donor dollars flowing in – without which dollars they cannot do
the good work they outline on their websites?
For those new Citipointe churchgoers who now log into my blog who may
be tempted to believe everything they read that emanates from the publicity
departments of NGOs in the business of rescuing children from poverty and the
sex trade, (Citipointe church and the Somaly Mam Foundation being but two
examples) this article will open your eyes and make you cautious and,
hopefully, inclined to ask questions of any NGO you wish to support.
Yes, of course there are plenty of good NGOs working in the field but
there are also plenty that are either incompetent or are outright scams –
including some that receive AusAID funds.
Lies such as Somaly Mam’s can go
undetected (remain secret, hidden from public view) for years. Many lies are
never revealed for what they are. Some
lies become accepted as the truth after a period of time if no-one contests
them in a public forum.
Hopefully this article about
Somaly Mam will be the first in a series of such investigative articles. The
aim need not be to expose fraudulent NGOs (though this is desirable for all
genuine and competent NGOs and their clients) but to see to it that all NGOs
are held accountable and are required to be transparent.
My visit to Citipointe church last
weekend and my handing out of fliers has yielded a few interesting responses.
Firstly there is the hate mail from churchgoers who refuse to believe that
their beloved church would even dream of doing any of the things I have accused
the church of doing. Then there are those who express no hate at all but point
out the good work that Citipointe does. “Why would Citipointe,” asked one, “be
helping to build a house for a woman who is in jail but tefuse to help Chanti
and her family?” I good question, M****. I donpt know the answer. Please ask
your church. Ask Pastors Ramsay and Mulheran lots of questions. Don’t
necessarily believe anything I write but, likewise, take all that your church
tells you with a huger grain of salt. Don’t find yourself in six months, or two
years, discovering that you have been lied to in the same way that Somaly Mam
has been lying to her sponsors and donors all these years.
Again, congratulations to Simon
Marks, Phorn Bopha and the Cambodia Daily for publishing this important piece
of investigative journalism
More please!
Thanks for the informative article! I've since removed Somaly Mam from our list of recommended NGOs.
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