Wednesday, October 24, 2012

letter # 13 for Leigh Ramsay




Leigh Ramsay
Citipointe church
322 Wecker Rd
Carindale QLD 4152                                                                                         24th Oct 2012


Dear Leigh


Following on from my letters of 21st. August and 12th Sept, along with the 10 or so others sent to you this past few months - all of which you have failed to acknowledge or respond to. 


I am back in Phnom Penh. Nothing has changed. There is no family re-integration program in place. R and SM are still in the custody of Citipointe church's 'She' refuge despite their mother's repeated requests, the most recent in writing, that her daughters be returned to her care. You took custody of R and SM years ago now in a manner that was illegal, immoral and contrary to all the basic precepts of Christianity as I understand the religion. You hoodwinked C into placing her thumb print on a piece of paper (one page) that you then told her was a contract giving Citipointe church complete control of R and SM until they were 18 and which severely limited C's visiting rights. This was a lie. The 'contract ', unsigned by anyone from the church, gave Citipointe no such rights. Indeed, it gave you no rights at all and contained no details other than that C wished Citiopointe to help her care for her daughters. Rather than assist the whole family (as you promised both C and myself) Citipointe  took control of C's daughters in a way that you knew caused her a great deal of anguish and have held the girls for around 4 years now. How dare you do this, Leigh! What kind of a Christian are you?

I cannot speak on behalf of the other girls in Citipoint's 'She' refuge (though I have been told that not one of them has been rescued from the sex trade!) but I can say, with a mass of evidence to back me up, that in relation to R and SM, the 'She'refuge is a sham, a scam - passing off the daughters of a poor family (C's) as having been victims of child trafficking or having been rescued from the sex trade. That Citipointe conducts 'poverty tours' that enable young Christians to fill Citipointe's coffers by paying to come to Cambodia to hang out with cute young girls whom they believe have been rescued from the sex trade is a form of exploitation in itself.


I will continue to fight for the right of Chanti to have her daughters returned to her care and trust that you will accede to her wishes and think of the mother's and daughters rights primarily and not of the benefits to be reaped by Citipointe church in retaining custody of R and SM.


best wishes


James Ricketson

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

letter # 12 to Leigh Ramsay


Leigh Ramsay
Citipointe church
322 Wecker Rd
Carindale QLD 4152                                                                                                  12th Sept. 2012

Dear Leigh

Following on from my letter of 21st. August which, as is your habit, you have failed to acknowledge or respond to. Another three weeks of silence!

I think it is fairly safe now to work on the presumption that you have no desire at all to see R and SM re-integrated back into their family; that Citipointe church intends to retain custody of the girls regardless of their mother’s wishes or of C’s ability now to care for her own daughters. As a consequence I will have to do whatever I can to see that R and SM are able to rejoin their family.

Given Citipointe’s refusal to take into account the wishes of C, Ch or R and SM, (who wish to rejoin their family) I will make it clear to the Minister of Social Affairs (with my actions and not just my words) that C and Ch are in a position to support all five of their children. To this end I will open a bank account for the family into which I can make regular payments that will meet all of their basic ongoing living expenses – guaranteeing that the children are all well fed, going to school and able to meet any medical expenses that may arise. Beyond meeting these basic living requirements it will be up to C and Chhork to find a way (with my help) to become self-sufficient to the point where my assistance is no longer required. This may, in reality, take a few years. I do not wish them to become dependent on me for their survival.

Having provided a level of income security for the family I will present evidence of this to the Minister of Social Affairs – along with a question:

What reason can there possibly be now for Citipointe church to hold R and SM against the wishes of their mother?”

I cannot, of course, second guess what the Minister’s response will be to this question. However, I find it hard to imagine how, in accordance with Cambodian law, he can recommend that R and SM remain in the custody of Citipointe church when their own parents are able to care for them. R and SM have a right to be brought up by their own parents and not in an institution. They are not orphans, but then this applies to most (if not all) of the girls that you advertise to potential donors to the ‘She’ refuge as having been rescued from the sex trade. In my view such false advertizing is just another form of exploitation and one that Citipointe church should not be engaging in; a form of exploitation that Christians acting in accordance with their professed values, should be ashamed to engage in. It is a form of exploitation that Chab Dai should be discouraging and not encouraging in a fellow Christian NGO. Citipointe church’s behaviour in presenting its ‘She’ refuge to the world as a refuge for victims of sex trafficking brings the whole NGO community into disrepute – especially those Christian NGOs that are genuinely committed to the reintegration of disadvantaged children (including genuine victims of the sex trade) back into their families and communities; those NGOs which acknowledge the right of children to be brought up by their parents, within their families and communities, and not in an institution run by foreigners who seek to alienate them from their Buddhist religion and the culture of which their parents are a part.

I imagine that you will fight tooth and nail to retain custody of R and SM regardless of their changed circumstances (they are no doubt great attractions on Citipointe’s ‘Poverty Tours’) and can only hope that someone in a position to do so asks you, asks Citipointe church, to mount a strong argument as to why these young Cambodian girls are better off growing up in a Christian institution than with their Buddhist family.

best wishes

James Ricketson


Thursday, August 23, 2012

letter to Minister of Social Affairs 23rd. August 2012

Ministry of Social Affairs
# 788 Monivong Blvd
Sangkat
Boeng Trbek
Khan Chomkamon
Phnom Penh                                                                                         23rd  August 2012

To Minister of Social Affairs

Following on from my earlier letters regarding Yem C’s daughters.

The three enclosed letters to Leigh Ramsay, Senior Pastor at Citipointe church (1st., 14th and 21st August), speak for themselves (along with the other 8 letters I have written to her) of my attempts to work with the church to secure the re-integration of R and SM back into the family of their mother, Yem C, this past month. Leigh Ramsay does not respond to any of my letters.

After four years of broken promises I see no signs at all that Citipointe church has any intention of working towards the re-integration of R and SM.

As I have mentioned before, I am prepared to take on the financial responsibility of caring for R and SM when they are returned to their family home. I will quite happily, if need be, enter into a contract with your Ministry to guarantee that all five children in the family will be well fed, that they go to school and that they have access to medical and dental attention.  I will also help Yem C and her husband with income generation.

If my proposal is agreeable to you in principle I will come to Cambodia to discuss it with you or your representative and to finalize the details.

best wishes

James Ricketson


Tuesday, August 21, 2012

letter # 11 to Leigh Ramsay 21st August


Leigh Ramsay
Citipointe church
322 Wecker Rd
Carindale QLD 4152                                                                                                                                21st August 2012

Dear Leigh

Another week has passed and you have yet to make even one suggestion as to how best to proceed with the re-integration of R and SM into their family. Re-integration was your goal you told me a month ago, remember? But then re-integration was your stated goal when I first met you in Phnom Penh four years ago. You lied to me (and, more importantly, to C) in 2007 and you are still lying in 2012. If your goal really is re-integration set the ball rolling by formulating a plan, on paper, that C can understand and agree to; a plan that can be presented to the Minister of Social Affairs for his approval.

I have a few questions for you that I hope members of your church might ask you:

1. How much money does ‘She’ raise per annum in donations made by people who believe that they are contributing to the rescuing of girls and young women from the sex trade?

2. How much capital do Citipointe’s ‘poverty tours’ to Cambodia generate for your church?

3. How much does it cost to run the ‘She’ refuge each year?

4 How much financial assistance does Citipointe church provide to the poor families of the girls Citipointe has ‘rescued’? (In the case of R and SM’s family the answer is zero. You do not help them at all – not even when there is a medical emergency or when C’s other children are suffering from malnutrition and have no roof over their heads.)

These questions could be subsumed under one question:

5. Is Citipointe church making a profit out of the running of its ‘She’ refuge?

As with all questions put to you, Leigh, you will not answer these. And of course you are under no obligation to do so. I do hope, however, that some of your donors ask these questions before they make their next donation.

I have three more questions:

6. How many of the girls in the ‘She’ refuge have actually been rescued from the sex trade?

7. How many of the girls, like R and SM, have merely been ‘rescued’ from their poor families?

8. Is it true, as C has been led to believe, that after re-integration, Citipointe will provide no further assistance of any kind to her daughters, R and SM?

best wishes

James Ricketson



Tuesday, August 14, 2012

letter # 10 to Leigh Ramsay 14th August



James Ricketson
316 Whale Beach Road
Palm Beach 2108
0400959229

Leigh Ramsay
Citipointe church
322 Wecker Rd
Carindale QLD 4152 14th August 2012

Dear Leigh

It is now more than three weeks since I first wrote to you regarding the formulation of a re-integration program whereby C’s daughters, R and SM, would be returned to the care of their mother. It is a little under three weeks since you and I spoke in Phnom Penh and you went to great pains to assure me that you wished, as much as I did, that R and SM be re-integrated back into their family. This is my 10th letter to you regarding this matter and yet you have not, to date, suggested how this re-integration might best be achieved or provided a time frame within which you believe it can or should be achieved.

I have no idea just who is visiting the blog on which I am posting this letter but to date the 600 ‘hits’ I have received suggests that there are some people in Cambodia and Australia who are taking an interest in my attempt to secure the re-integration of C’s children whilst you seem to have no real interest in re-integration at all above or at lest are making no moves to make it a reality. It would be very easy for you to prove me wrong in this presumption, Leigh, and I sincerely hope that you do. As a mother you must surely appreciate how painful it is for C to have been waiting for 4 years for re-integration and to get nothing but empty promises from Citipointe. Now is the time for action on your part and not for yet more motherhood statements about how desirable re-integration is.

best wishes

James Ricketson


Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Letter to Cambodian Minister of Social Affairs # 17


Ministry of Social Affairs
788B Monivong
Phnom Penh                                                                                                3rd August 2012

To Minister of Social Affairs

Further to my letter of 1st. August. I am now back in Australia and unable to have my letters to you translated into Khmer. I trust that it will not cause offence or difficulty for you if I write them in English now and send them via email.

I have, on my blog (http://citipointechurch.blogspot.com.au/) given a fairly comprehensive account of my attempts, over a period of four years, to get Citipointe to abide by the promises the church made to both  Chanty and myself in 2008. I have not been successful. Over the past few weeks, whilst in Cambodia, I have tried very hard to work with Citipointe to formulate a plan for the re-integration of R and SM back into the care of their family. Citipointe has not co-operated in my endeavours at all. The church appears to be determined to retain custody of R and SM until they are 18 years old despite the express wishes of their mother, C and step-father, CH. Citipoint claims that it is retaining custody in accordance with a contractual agreement the church has with the Ministry of Social Affairs. Neither  C nor myself have seen a copy of this document. Despite many requests over a period of four years Citipointe refuses to produce it or to inform  C what her rights are and what she must do to have her daughters returned to her care.

I wish to stress, yet again, that R and SM are not orphans. They are part of a large family. Nor are R and SM victims of sexual abuse or any aspect of the sex trade. They are merely the daughters of poor parents who were tricked, four years ago, into accepting the help of Citipointe church at a time of great need. Since that time Citipointe has refused to return R and SM to their family.

The latest in a long list of reasons given by Citipointe as to why it cannot return R and SM to their family is that the community in which they are now living is not a safe one. Citipointe says that the determination that the community is not safe (despite it being a typical suburban Phnom Penh community) was made by Ministry of Social Affairs social workers. No-one in the community, including  C, has any recollection of these social workers visiting the community. If these social workers did visit the community and find it unsafe could you please provide both  C and myself with the reasons why the social workers found it unsafe and the date on which they conducted their visit?

Citipointe church ‘She’ refuge is based on an assertion that is not true – namely that the girls resident in the refuge have been rescued from the sex trade, from sexual abuse and from trafficking. According to the information that has been given to me there is not one girl at the ‘She’ refuge that meets the definition of the residents described on the ‘She’ website – namely that they have been rescued from some form of the sex trade. Even if there are one or two girls who have been so rescued, the fact is that the girls in the refuge are overwhelmingly the daughters of poor families. I believe it is inappropriate for Citipointe church to be advertising on its website that the girls have been rescued from the sex trade. I think it is also inappropriate that Citipointe runs ‘poverty tours’  to Cambodia, bringing young Christians to your country to interact with these children as if they were animals in a zoo. These children have families, they are members of communities and should not be used by Citipointe to raise revenue for the multi-million dollar church it operates in Brisbane, Australia.

There are several highly committed and experienced NGOs that actually perform the tasks of rescuing girls from the sex trade and reintegrating them into their families and communities. They are to be congratulated for the good work they do. When a girl is rescued from sexual exploitation of any kind the task of re-integrating that girl back into her family and community is complicated not merely by the traumatic experiences she has had but because it may well be that her family or some members of the community have been complicit in her being exposed to sexual abuse. This is sensitive and very difficult work to be conducted by experts in the field. For Citipointe to pretend that it is re-integrating sexually abused back into their families and communities is hypocrisy of the worst kind. Indeed the very word ‘re-integration’ makes little sense at all in relation to the work that Citipointe church does – namely, to take girls from poor families and take care of them until they turn 18 whilst basically ignoring the needs to the remainder of the family.

C is now adamant that she does not wish her daughters to remain in the care of Citipointe church any longer. She has presented your Ministry with a letter signed by herself and her Village Chief requesting that her children be returned to her care. I trust that you will agree to  C’s request. As I have mentioned already, I am prepared to do all that is necessary to help support  C in such a way that the family can stay together and not be separated. I also wish for  C’s children to be free to practice the Buddhist religion of their parents and not be forced by Citipointe to become Christians. If Citipointe rejects the assertion that it is forcibly indoctrinating the girls in the ‘She’ refuge into the Christian faith, ask the girls that live in the refuge how many hours they spend each day receiving bible oriented lessons and how much time each day is spent in being instructed in the Buddhist faith of their parents?

It is my belief that the time has come for Cambodia to close all, or at least most, of the so called ‘orphanages’ in the country. If the NGOs that run these ‘orphanages’ wish to help poor families (a noble task) let them help the families within their communities - not by separating the children from their families and communities and bringing them up in institutions.  As you will be aware, the policies implemented by many NGOs in the running of ‘orphanages’ are not dissimilar to those practiced by the Khmer Rouge in the mistaken belief that breaking up families was a good and ideologically appropriate thing to do. Let the NGOs who wish to help poor families respect the Buddhist religion of these families (most of them) and not try to force them to become Christians.

I trust that you will act as soon as possible of  C’s  request that her daughters be returned to her care.

best wishes

James Ricketson

Final letter to Leigh Ramsay 2012 # 16


Leigh Ramsay
Citipointe church
322 Wecker Rd
Carindale QLD 4152                                                                                    1st. August 2012

Dear Leigh

This is my ninth letter to you in 10 days. I believe that any independent observer (of which there will be several in days to come) would arrive at the conclusion that I have tried as hard as I could in successive letters to get Citipointe to enter into an agreed upon arrangement with C whereby R and SM are returned to her care within a specific time frame and in accordance with whatever benchmarks have been laid down by the Ministry of Social Affairs. The problem is that C does not know what these benchmarks are and has never been informed of them this past four years – despite many requests from both herself and myself.

It has been (and remains) in the interests of Citipointe to withhold this information from C, in the belief that the church can continue to spin one yarn after another to her to justify its decision not to return her daughters to her care and that she is not smart enough to understand what is going on. Such contemptuous behaviour is the hallmark of the way in which Cityipointe runs it’s ‘She’ refuge. The church advertises this refuge on its website and presents to its Brisbane parishioners, as being engaged in rescuing girls and young women from the sex trade. It is nothing of the sort. It is an institution in which the daughters of poor parents are forcibly indoctrinated into Citipointe’s particular brand of the Christian faith. You then present yourself to the world as some kind of latter day Mother Theresa and ask young Australian Christians to pay money to travel to Cambodia to see the good work you are doing in what can best be described as ‘poverty tourism’. No doubt R and SM, two attractive girls, are paraded in front of your ‘poverty tourists’ as examples of how wonderful the ‘She’ refuge is to have rescued these poor girls from the sex trade. These Christian ‘poverty tourists’, along with Citipointe church parishioners and others who open their wallets to give money to the church, are blissfully unaware that at least two of the girls in the church’s care (R and SM) have been effectively ‘stolen’ from their mother and are being held contrary to her express wishes.

I do hope, Leigh, that this last statement causes you to reach for the telephone and instruct your lawyers (yet again!) to write me a strongly worded letter threatening to sue me. Don’t waste your time. Commence legal proceedings immediately. I would commence legal proceedings against Citipointe myself if I had the financial wherewithal to do so – charging the church, in accordance with Cambodian law, of trafficking. Yes, trafficking, kidnapping. For the 15 months between the time Citipointe  hoodwinked C into accepting the church’s offer to help care for R and SM until the time you finally got a document from the Ministry of Social Affairs, Citipointe had no legal right to be holding the girls against their mother’s wishes and in the absence of any legally binding contract. This was against the law. More importantly, it was immoral and showed a total lack of respect and empathy for the mother, C, who was grieving for the loss of her children and who today continues to grieve. C does not want R and SM to stay one day longer at the ‘She’ refuge and, as I leave for Australia, I have not only left her with enough money to take care of R and SM herself but have promised to send her more from Australia to cover the expenses involved in feeding, clothing and educating R and SM.

On my return to Australia I will see to it, through my blog (which I will update daily) and through providing copies of my most recent correspondence to the media, that Citipointe’s fraudulent claims regarding its ‘She’ refuge are publicly known. I will also be writing another letter to the Minister asking that Citipointe’s activities in Cambodia be investigated and that the church be told that it cannot run what is effectively an orphanage for children of poor families whilst presenting itself to the world as a rescuer of young girls from the sex trade. Such hypocrisy is breathtaking. And I will be writing to the Minister for Foreign Affairs, the Hon Bob Carr to ask DFAT to investigate Citipointe’s fraudulent public claims regarding its ‘She’ refuge.

I look forward to hearing from Citipointe’s lawyers and seeing you in court.

best wishes

James Ricketson