Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Letter to Cambodian Minister of Social Affairs # 17


Ministry of Social Affairs
788B Monivong
Phnom Penh                                                                                                3rd August 2012

To Minister of Social Affairs

Further to my letter of 1st. August. I am now back in Australia and unable to have my letters to you translated into Khmer. I trust that it will not cause offence or difficulty for you if I write them in English now and send them via email.

I have, on my blog (http://citipointechurch.blogspot.com.au/) given a fairly comprehensive account of my attempts, over a period of four years, to get Citipointe to abide by the promises the church made to both  Chanty and myself in 2008. I have not been successful. Over the past few weeks, whilst in Cambodia, I have tried very hard to work with Citipointe to formulate a plan for the re-integration of R and SM back into the care of their family. Citipointe has not co-operated in my endeavours at all. The church appears to be determined to retain custody of R and SM until they are 18 years old despite the express wishes of their mother, C and step-father, CH. Citipoint claims that it is retaining custody in accordance with a contractual agreement the church has with the Ministry of Social Affairs. Neither  C nor myself have seen a copy of this document. Despite many requests over a period of four years Citipointe refuses to produce it or to inform  C what her rights are and what she must do to have her daughters returned to her care.

I wish to stress, yet again, that R and SM are not orphans. They are part of a large family. Nor are R and SM victims of sexual abuse or any aspect of the sex trade. They are merely the daughters of poor parents who were tricked, four years ago, into accepting the help of Citipointe church at a time of great need. Since that time Citipointe has refused to return R and SM to their family.

The latest in a long list of reasons given by Citipointe as to why it cannot return R and SM to their family is that the community in which they are now living is not a safe one. Citipointe says that the determination that the community is not safe (despite it being a typical suburban Phnom Penh community) was made by Ministry of Social Affairs social workers. No-one in the community, including  C, has any recollection of these social workers visiting the community. If these social workers did visit the community and find it unsafe could you please provide both  C and myself with the reasons why the social workers found it unsafe and the date on which they conducted their visit?

Citipointe church ‘She’ refuge is based on an assertion that is not true – namely that the girls resident in the refuge have been rescued from the sex trade, from sexual abuse and from trafficking. According to the information that has been given to me there is not one girl at the ‘She’ refuge that meets the definition of the residents described on the ‘She’ website – namely that they have been rescued from some form of the sex trade. Even if there are one or two girls who have been so rescued, the fact is that the girls in the refuge are overwhelmingly the daughters of poor families. I believe it is inappropriate for Citipointe church to be advertising on its website that the girls have been rescued from the sex trade. I think it is also inappropriate that Citipointe runs ‘poverty tours’  to Cambodia, bringing young Christians to your country to interact with these children as if they were animals in a zoo. These children have families, they are members of communities and should not be used by Citipointe to raise revenue for the multi-million dollar church it operates in Brisbane, Australia.

There are several highly committed and experienced NGOs that actually perform the tasks of rescuing girls from the sex trade and reintegrating them into their families and communities. They are to be congratulated for the good work they do. When a girl is rescued from sexual exploitation of any kind the task of re-integrating that girl back into her family and community is complicated not merely by the traumatic experiences she has had but because it may well be that her family or some members of the community have been complicit in her being exposed to sexual abuse. This is sensitive and very difficult work to be conducted by experts in the field. For Citipointe to pretend that it is re-integrating sexually abused back into their families and communities is hypocrisy of the worst kind. Indeed the very word ‘re-integration’ makes little sense at all in relation to the work that Citipointe church does – namely, to take girls from poor families and take care of them until they turn 18 whilst basically ignoring the needs to the remainder of the family.

C is now adamant that she does not wish her daughters to remain in the care of Citipointe church any longer. She has presented your Ministry with a letter signed by herself and her Village Chief requesting that her children be returned to her care. I trust that you will agree to  C’s request. As I have mentioned already, I am prepared to do all that is necessary to help support  C in such a way that the family can stay together and not be separated. I also wish for  C’s children to be free to practice the Buddhist religion of their parents and not be forced by Citipointe to become Christians. If Citipointe rejects the assertion that it is forcibly indoctrinating the girls in the ‘She’ refuge into the Christian faith, ask the girls that live in the refuge how many hours they spend each day receiving bible oriented lessons and how much time each day is spent in being instructed in the Buddhist faith of their parents?

It is my belief that the time has come for Cambodia to close all, or at least most, of the so called ‘orphanages’ in the country. If the NGOs that run these ‘orphanages’ wish to help poor families (a noble task) let them help the families within their communities - not by separating the children from their families and communities and bringing them up in institutions.  As you will be aware, the policies implemented by many NGOs in the running of ‘orphanages’ are not dissimilar to those practiced by the Khmer Rouge in the mistaken belief that breaking up families was a good and ideologically appropriate thing to do. Let the NGOs who wish to help poor families respect the Buddhist religion of these families (most of them) and not try to force them to become Christians.

I trust that you will act as soon as possible of  C’s  request that her daughters be returned to her care.

best wishes

James Ricketson

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