Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Chanti gives birth to a daughter. Letter to Leigh Ramsay


Leigh Ramsay
322 Wecker Road
Carindale
QLD 4152

27th Feb 2013

Late last night Chanti gave birth to a baby girl. I have just returned from the hospital, having paid the bill associated with the birth. I have also spoken again with the doctor about Chanti having her tubes tied in six or so weeks so that she has no more babies.

In close to five years why has Citipointe done nothing to counsel Chanti and Chhork about birth control? Why has it been left to me, a non Cambodian man, to talk to and advise Chanti and Chhork in this way? The procedure will cost more money – which I am quite happy to pay. Why has Citipointe not been prepared to pay any of Chanti’s medical expenses? Will Citipointe come to the party and help out with baby clothes, milk or financial help of any kind? Silly question. The answer is no. Rebecca Brewer was very clear about this in her email to me of 24th Oct 2008:

“Regarding continued support to Chanti, we are unable to assist with distributing this sort of aid. Our focus is to assist the children in our care as needed and the work we do with the parents is limited. If we were to be seen giving handouts to one individual parent it could prove very disruptive to the rest of the community.”

How foolish of me not to have appreciated the full import of Rebecca’s words back then! These words, in addition to Rebecca’s declaration that Rosa and Chita would remain with Citipointe till they were 18! As soon as it became apparent that Citipointe was holding Rosa and Chita illegally and/or against the wishes of Chanti and Chhork, I should have asked the Australian Federal Police to investigate the trafficking of these two girls by Citipointe. Yes, of course you will try to cloud the issue by maintaining that Citipointe had some kind of contractual arrangement with Foreign Affairs at the time the church got Chanti to put her thumb print to a sham ‘contract’ that gave you the right to hold the girls against the wishes of their parents but until I see a copy of the legal document drawn up between Citipointe and Foreign Affairs I will take this declaration with a huge grain of salt. Even if such a contract exists, why was it entered into with Foreign Affairs in such secrecy that Chanti’s commune chief was not consulted and knew nothing about it?

Rebecca’s declaration about not helping the parents of the girls resident in the She Rescue Home is , incidentally, completely at odds with what the church claims on its website. It is also completely at odds with what you wrote to me on 31st July 2012:

Recapping our discussions that we had with you on the Riverfront in Phnom Penh on Saturday 28 July 2012, our stand has not changed in that we are committed to the girls and we desire to safely reintegrate them home under MoSAVY’s direction and instruction…We understand your frustration and concern as you had mentioned how the family are so poor - that you found them eating dog and that the other children often have red hair from a lack of nutritious food. For all of these reasons we are working diligently to ultimately have this family together in a safe environment with available food and education for all the children…We acknowledge receipt of all correspondence sent over this last two weeks of which our communication will continue between MoSAVY, social workers, the family and our Khmer staff.
  
Best Regards

Leigh Ramsay

Leigh, take a good hard look at these words from your July 31st 2012 email:

“…we are working diligently to ultimately have this family together in a safe environment with available food and education for all the children…”

Now tell me, and the growing band of followers of my Citipointe blog, just what Citipointe church has done this past close to five years to facilitate reintegration, to provide food, clothing or a roof over the family’s head or education for the children? The answer is nothing. Nothing. The only contribution your church has made to the family’s finances is to provide them with the material to make wrist bracelets for Citipointe and then pay them a pitifully small amount in buying the finished product. I do not have the footage with me but I seem to recall the amount Citipointe was paying was $30 per 100 wrist bracelets. I may be mistaken in this but my point is that this is the ONLY financial support Citipointe has provided the family this past close to five years.

It has come to my attention that for a considerable period of time Rosa has been ‘sponsored’ by a Citipointe donor. Could you please confirm or deny that this is the case? In the event that it is true, that Citipointe has been receiving sponsorship money for Rosa, some questions arise:

(1)  Do Rosa’s sponsors know that she is not a victim of Human Trafficking?
(2) Do Rosa’s sponsors know tat she has a mother, a father, a grandmother, siblings and is part of two extended families?
(3) How much money does this sponsor pay per month to Citipointe church?
(4) Why has none of the money paid by the sponsor found its way to the family of Rosa?

I have quoted below, in full, one of the letters that you acknowledged receipt of in your 31st,. July email. My 26th Oct 2012 letter speaks for itself:


Dear Leigh

As you know, Chanti and her husband Chhork have yet again made a formal request that Rosa and Chita (Srey Mal) be returned to their family. I hope that you do not ignore this request as you have ignored all previous requests this past four years.

The translation of the following document may be a little imprecise but its meaning is clear: Chanti and Chhork want Rosa and Chita (Srey Mal) to leave the ‘She’ Refuge and return to live with their family. They have been requesting this for a long time and you have promised, many times, that Citipointe would return the girls to Chanti’s care ‘soon’. Your promises have proved to be empty and, as the months and years pass, it seems clear to me that the church has no intention of relinquishing control of Chanti’s daughters. 

This time the request is being made via the Commune Chief who has visited Chanti and Chhork’s home and determined that they are capable of taking care of Rosa and Chita.

We, Phnun Chhork, male, aged 28; and the wife, YEM CHANTI, aged 27, currently residing at Rented House...(address)

Respectfully submit to
Director of Phnom Penh Municipal Department of Social Affairs, Veteran and Youth Rehabilitation

Subject: Request for intervention in the case of two children in Citipointe Organization

1 PHUN ROSA Sex: Female Age 10
2 PHUN CHITA Sex: Female Age 8

WIth regard to the above subject, because presently we can afford to raise our children, we would like them to live together again with our family.

Therefore, the director of Phnom Penh Municipal Department of Social Affairs please intervene in taking the two children from the organization at your favourable decision.

I wish you good health and success

Guardians

  Father            Mother
  (Thumb Print)   (Thumb Print)

Russei Keo, 24th Oct 2012
(signed and stamped) Moul Vireak

I have, today, bought Chanti’s family the first half of a tuk tuk - the motor cycle component. On Monday Chanti and Chhork will take possession of the other half - the cabin in which passengers sit. I will be making a down-payment on this but it will be up to Chanti and Chhork pay off the remainder over for the next 10 months. If Citipointe would like to make a financial contribution to the acquisition of the tuk tuk, a vital step towards making the family self-sufficient (one of Citipointe’s professed goals), it would be much appreciated by Chanti and myself. The same applies for when Rosa and Chita are returned to the care of Chanti and Chhork, as I trust they will be shortly. Even with the tuk tuk and what Chanti can earn selling books, survival for the family will be a constant struggle - as it is for all poor Cambodians. I will be helping out to the best of my financial ability. I trust that Citipointe will also continue to provide some support for Rosa and Chita whilst living in their family home so that they may continue with their schooling and have regular access to medical and dental care.

best wishes

Leigh, I have invited you many times this past four years to correct me if any of the facts I have presented in my letters or, this past year, on my blog, are wrong. I issue the invitation again. Point out any errors of fact I have made and I will publish the necessary corrections online. If Citipointe does in fact have a legally binding contract with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs that gave Rebecca the right on 11th August 2008 to declare that Rosa and Chita would remain with the church until they are 18, provide me with a copy and I will publish it.

I have likewise many times offered to work with the church to help the entire family – as any reader of my blog in its entirely will confirm. Citipointe has ignored my every offer. As soon as Chanti’s baby is old enough to make the journey I will travel with the family to oversee renovations on their new home in in Prey Veng order to make it bigger and better suited to the needs of the family. Again, I invite Citipointe to make a financial contribution to this process.

best wishes

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