Ministry
of Social Affairs, Veterans and
Youth
Rehabilitation
788B
Monivong
Phnom Penh 31st
July 2012
To
Minister of Social Affairs
I am
assisting C obtain some
information from your Ministry regarding her daughters R and SM who are
currently living in the Citipointe ‘She’ refuge in Phnom Penh.
C wants
her daughters to come and live with her in her family home. She wants to know
what she must do to be reunited with her daughters in a way that satisfies the
requirements of the Ministry of Social Affairs, Veterans and Youth
Rehabilitation.
I have
enclosed a document, signed by C and her husband with their thump prints
requesting that the children be returned to their parent’s care.
Citipoint
church claims that the girls residing in its ‘She’ refuge are victims of sexual
abuse and trafficking. This is not true. The girls in the ‘She’ rescue home are
the daughters of poor families. I believe it is wrong for Citipointe to present
itself to the Cambodian government as being involved in rescuing from the sex
trade when it does not do so.
I have
enclosed a copy of a letter that I wrote to Leigh Ramsay of Citipointe church
this morning requesting that the church return R and SM to the care of their
parents today.
best
wishes
James
Ricketson
Ministry
of Social Affairs
788B
Monivong
Phnom Penh 1st
August 2012
To
Minister of Social Affairs
R and SM,
the daughters of C, have lived at
the Citipointe church ‘She’ refuge for four years now. In four years the church
has not presented C with one document relating to a plan to enable R and SM to
be re-integrated back into their family. In four years Citipointe church has
not even commenced the re-integration process. There is no contractual
arrangement between C and
Citipointe and C has made it clear
that she wants her daughters returned to her care. If Citipointe church
maintains that a re-integration program exists and that it has been provided
to Chanty could you please ask the
church when it was provided to her? Could you also ask the church to please
provide both C and myself with copies of it. Does the Ministry of Social
Affairs have a copy of this plan? If so, could C and myself be provided with a copy if Citipoine church
refuses to do so?
Citipointe
says that it has a contractual arrangement with the Ministry of Social Affairs
that gives the church the right to take care of R and SM regardless of the
mother Chanty’s wishes. Could you
please supply C and myself (as her
advocate) with a copy of this document?
R and SM
are not the victims of sexual abuse or of sex trafficking. They are simply the
children of a poor mother. The mother,
C, now has a home, its rent paid by myself. Please see receipt for rent
paid up until 1st. Nov 2012. I have also bought a substantial amount
of rice for the family and am providing it with $100 a month allowance to help
pay bills. In addition to this,
C’s husband, CH, drives a tuk tuk to earn money to support the family.
And C sells books, silk scarves
and other items to tourists to help pay the family bills also. When R and SM
return to their family it is important that they continue with their schooling.
I will pay for their school fees and school uniforms; their medical and dental
bills.
Like many
thousands of other families in Phnom Penh, C’s family will remain poor – even with the financial
assistance I am able to provide. A family’s poverty should not be a reason for
any NGO from a wealthy country like Australia to take control of the family’s
children and force them to adopt the religious beliefs of the NGO. The children
should remain with their families unless there is some clearly identifiable
risk to them. C, her husband and
her mother ,V, love R and SM and wish to take care of them. I have witnessed
them over the years since the children were born and can vouch for the fact
that C and CH are good parents and
V a good grandmother. V does, at times, suffer from bouts of mental illness but
never behaves in a way that would result in the children coming to harm.
Since R
and SM are not orphans and they are not the victims of sexual abuse or
trafficking why does their welfare fall under the jurisdiction of the
‘Trafficking’ section of your Ministry? There is something very wrong here!
One final
point. Citipointe claims that Ministry of Social Affairs social workers have
deemed that the home in which C is
currently residing is not safe. I have spent a lot of time in this community
and cannot see any evidence that it is not safe. Which aspects of the community
did Ministry of Social Affairs social workers find to be unsafe? How long did
they spend in the community and on what dates? I would like to check with the
community to see if anyone in it has a recollection of the visit of these
social workers. Could the Ministry of Social Affairs please provide both myself
and C with a copy of the report
they wrote regarding the community and why they believe it to be unsafe?
After 16
years of coming to Cambodia it is my belief, based on what I have seen, that it
is time to close all of the so-called orphanages that are run by NGOs. Cambodia
has very few genuine orphans. The children that wind up in ‘orphanages’ have
families who could care for them. If NGOs wish to help poor families, let them
do so within the communities in which the children live.
best
wishes
James
Ricketson